{"id":1029,"date":"2018-12-10T17:06:30","date_gmt":"2018-12-10T10:06:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/?p=1029"},"modified":"2018-12-10T17:09:45","modified_gmt":"2018-12-10T10:09:45","slug":"phan-dinh-ve-on-goi-hon-nhan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/2018\/12\/10\/phan-dinh-ve-on-goi-hon-nhan\/","title":{"rendered":"Ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 ngay \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi tu tr\u00ec l\u00e0m linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi, \u0111a ph\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi tu tr\u00ec m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh. C\u00f2n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi tu tr\u00ec nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c tu s\u0129 th\u00ec ta c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00e2n v\u00e2n khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u00a0N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00f4i th\u00fac hay b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tu tr\u00ec li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00e3 in thi\u1ec7p c\u01b0\u1edbi th\u00ec th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, khi \u0111i t\u0129nh t\u00e2m chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ng\u00e0y h\u00f4n l\u1ec5 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn, anh l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c, b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. L\u1ea1i c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y h\u01b0\u1edbng chi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tu tr\u00ec, c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u00e1c t\u00edn v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau; nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, li\u1ec7u Ch\u00faa c\u00f3 g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ch\u0103ng? V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean tu h\u1ed9i?<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec th\u1ebf, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i v\u00e0o l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi \u1ea5y t\u1eeb tr\u1eddi cao \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho t\u00f4i trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ea7n th\u1ebf. B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u201c\u01a1n g\u1ecdi\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u201c\u01a1n g\u1ecdi\u201d (vocation). H\u1ea1n t\u1eeb \u201cvocation\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nguy\u00ean ng\u1eef la-tinh \u201cvocare\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201cg\u1ecdi\u201d. M\u1ed9t \u201c\u01a1n g\u1ecdi\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi\u201d. Ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi \u1ea5y t\u1eeb Ch\u00faa g\u1edfi \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf l\u1ed9 th\u00e1nh \u00fd Ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3ng Vatican\u00f4 II kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00ean th\u00e1nh. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi n\u00ean th\u00e1nh \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u00f3a n\u01a1i m\u1ed9t \u201c\u01a1n g\u1ecdi\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cb\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi. Trong b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c: \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c tu s\u0129 nam n\u1eef v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong b\u1eadc gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 do d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi. C\u1ea3 hai b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 quy h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi. L\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo Ch\u00faa qua \u201cb\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng\u201d gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cV\u00ec Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, n\u00ean \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc ngay trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.\u201d (S\u00e1ch GLHTCG, s\u1ed1 1603). Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa kh\u1eafc ghi c\u00e1ch th\u00e2m s\u00e2u trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 mang m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u00e2u xa v\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u00a0Theo cha Bryce Sybley, m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 Gia \u0111\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c Gi\u00e1o Ph\u1eadn LaFayette, ti\u1ec3u bang Louisiana, Hoa K\u1ef3, \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mang t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa kh\u1eafc ghi c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u xa n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u00e0i cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c hay n\u1eef tu, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng, n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n ngang qua n\u1ec1n th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1o Ho\u00e0ng Gioan Phaol\u00f4 II g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t th\u00e2n x\u00e1c quy h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n\u201d (a spousal meaning of body). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t h\u1ee3p th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c-h\u1ed3n (an ensouled body), nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh theo \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u201cm\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eeb ai. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng nh\u1ea5t, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201c\u01a1n g\u1ecdi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc ngay \u1edf c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u th\u00e2m s\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ADN n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh xem m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y n\u00ean n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed xem t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng. Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef. M\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef th\u00ec t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1c Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec1u tin r\u1eb1ng Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mang t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e2ng \u01a1n g\u1ecdi n\u00e0y l\u00ean h\u00e0ng b\u00ed t\u00edch. C\u00f4ng \u0110\u1ed3ng Vatican\u00f4 II x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Tr\u00ean b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n thi\u00eang li\u00eang, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ee9c Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh Ng\u01b0\u1eddi (x. Ep 5, 22-32). \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn qua ph\u00e9p R\u1eeda th\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd sau n\u00e0y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng l\u00ean h\u00e0ng b\u00ed t\u00edch. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111i li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00ed t\u00edch. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u00ed t\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ta ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi. Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh n\u00e0y. \u01a0n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng c\u1ee7a Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi (x. Mt 19, 12c).<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00ec li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0m linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng? Cha Bryce Sybley \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Ng\u00e0i cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda nh\u01b0 nhau. \u0110\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn theo \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb kh\u01b0\u1edbc \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u1ea7u ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n linh m\u1ee5c. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n th\u00e2m s\u00e2u tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a ta lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf h\u1eb3n hay xem th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mang m\u1ed9t s\u1eafc th\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi, m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c. C\u0169ng th\u1ebf, khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0o \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 mong c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn. M\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 dao \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i \u201cteen\u201d kho\u1ea3ng 18-19 th\u00ec c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 dao d\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd d\u1ec5 h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 24 \u2013 28, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh h\u01b0\u1edbng chi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn hay c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc ao m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ch\u00ednh Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng nh\u1edd \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng si\u00eau nhi\u00ean (x. Mt 19, 11-12). Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1eabn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 khuynh chi\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c. S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp \u0111i l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00ec \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft h\u1eb3n v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi kh\u1eafc trong th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01a1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb kh\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u1eadp gi\u00e1 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 trong ni\u1ec1m vui thanh tho\u00e1t nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a \u00e2n s\u1ee7ng Ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t \u201ch\u00f4n \u01b0\u1edbc\u201d v\u1edbi Hi\u1ec1n Th\u00ea l\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111o\u00e0n t\u00edn h\u1eefu m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi khi\u1ebft t\u1ecbnh th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nghi th\u1ee9c th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn trinh n\u1eef ho\u1eb7c tuy\u00ean kh\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c n\u1eef tu bao tr\u00f9m m\u00e0u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n x\u00e1c: m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng cho Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 v\u00e0 H\u1ed9i Th\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Qua qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn sinh nhi\u1ec1u hoa tr\u00e1i thi\u00eang li\u00eang. V\u1ecb linh m\u1ee5c tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha thi\u00eang li\u00eang cho \u0111o\u00e0n con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. Ch\u1ecb n\u1eef tu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 thi\u00eang li\u00eang cho \u0111o\u00e0n con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y cho m\u1ed9t \u01a1n g\u1ecdi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cm\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d c\u0103n b\u1ea3n n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh xem m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o \u01a1n g\u1ecdi tu tr\u00ec kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu sau khi ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn hay \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t x\u00e1c t\u00edn lu\u00e2n l\u00fd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00ean t\u00e2m lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eafc ghi trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Khi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nam hay n\u1eef, Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta n\u01a1i tr\u1ea7n gian. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ban cho ch\u00fang ta l\u00fd tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 suy x\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u01a1n soi s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb t\u1eeb kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f2i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u00ec gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi th\u00eam v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecm th\u00e1nh \u00fd Ch\u00faa trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n ti\u1ebfn qua nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eb7ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem\u00a0<strong>li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong>\u00a0Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 qua nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n t\u0129nh t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi qua ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<li>Sau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00ec N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi qua b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129 ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi, d\u00f9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e9p k\u00edn c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda m\u1edf l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh xem\u00a0<strong>li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Ch\u00faa g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong>\u00a0\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u0103n b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p n\u01a1i vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u00e1nh \u00fd Ch\u00faa qua vi\u1ec7c suy x\u00e9t, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, l\u1eafng nghe ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa, b\u00e0n h\u1ecfi trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang.<\/li>\n<li>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y, c\u00e1c khuynh chi\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c l\u00f4i k\u00e9o, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0a c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, s\u1ef1 cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa vang l\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecm ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng Ch\u00faa mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a cho \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ai. Ch\u00ednh trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng thong dong n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb l\u00f4i k\u00e9o v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t g\u1eafn b\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay m\u1ed9t \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0o v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 b\u1ecb l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c trong ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n. C\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan qu\u00e1 th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1edbi t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh xem m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u01a1n g\u1ecdi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201cli\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi trong b\u1eadc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi trong b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Khi \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u201cm\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n r\u1ed3i. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua ch\u1eb7ng th\u1ee9 hai: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n suy x\u00e9t v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi trong b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<li>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1edf ra \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh cam k\u1ebft g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chia s\u1ebb m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu, h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ed1ng, s\u1edf th\u00edch\u2026, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3.<\/li>\n<li>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh trao ban v\u00e0 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ebfn d\u00e2ng ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng? C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf n\u01a1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean m\u1ed9t trong nhau v\u00e0 v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nhau trong m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng hy sinh ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o mang t\u00ednh \u0111\u01a1n h\u00f4n v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 ph\u00e2n ly n\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i y\u00eau v\u00e0 chung th\u1ee7y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y su\u1ed1t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i thay c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>T\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd sinh hoa tr\u00e1i n\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn chu to\u00e0n b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ee9c tin m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 trao cho t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef kh\u00f4ng? Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sinh con c\u00e1i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y trong ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn h\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i khi nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh sai l\u1ea7m, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tha th\u1ee9 khi m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nhau trong nh\u1eefng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y g\u1eb7p ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n, kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, gian nan v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>Suy x\u00e9t v\u00e0 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 nghe th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh an kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00ec sao kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>Ch\u1eb7ng cu\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a.\u00a0<strong>Ai s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd trong su\u1ed1t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi?\u00a0<\/strong>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 theo m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u1ee3i \u00fd sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/li>\n<li>T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y?<\/li>\n<li>C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i khi chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho nhau tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho nhau kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>S\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nhau c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 b\u1ed5 t\u00fac h\u00e0i h\u00f2a nh\u1edd h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ed3ng hi\u1ec7p l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>T\u00ednh kh\u00ed kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>H\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n<li>\u0110i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 chung m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng lu\u00e2n l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a n\u01a1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb lu\u00e2n l\u00fd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ebfu th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt d\u00e0nh cho nhau qua s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Theo Cha Stefen Wang, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n:<\/strong>\u00a0\u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u1ea5y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 theo b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. B\u1ea1n m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, ng\u01b0\u1edfi ch\u1ed3ng. B\u1ea1n \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. Khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an. B\u1ea1n khao kh\u00e1t t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u0169ng khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n \u1ea5y d\u1eabn d\u1eaft b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i:\u00a0<\/strong>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. B\u1ea1n mong \u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 cha, l\u00e0 m\u1eb9. D\u00f9 c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay ph\u1ea3i hy sinh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. H\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n Ch\u00faa ban t\u1eb7ng. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i khi n\u00e0o h\u1ed3ng \u00e2n n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quen bi\u1ebft:<\/strong>\u00a0B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eedng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9. B\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 h\u1ecd v\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u00f9 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra n\u01a1i h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea7y trong y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1eb1ng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd g\u1ee3i l\u00ean n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng kh\u1edfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m tin Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/strong>\u00a0H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/li>\n<li><strong>B\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd:\u00a0<\/strong>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7n th\u00e2n n\u01a1i m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi h\u1ecd trong b\u1eadc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2n kh\u1eafc khi ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u01a1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n:<\/strong>\u00a0H\u1eb3n nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4i th\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u00e1c \u01a1n g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0o cho th\u1ea5y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi v\u00e0o \u01a1n g\u1ecdi linh m\u1ee5c hay b\u1eadc \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00e1nh hi\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c t\u00edn r\u1eb1ng, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi m\u00e0 Ch\u00faa m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chia s\u1ebb t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh chung v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi b\u1eadc s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap n\u01a1i c\u00e1c v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh thi\u00eang li\u00eang ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c v\u1ecb m\u1ee5c t\u1eed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong><em>Lm T\u00f4ma V\u0169 Quang Trung, S.J.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><em>05\/10\/2017<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 ngay \u0111\u1ebfn \u01a1n g\u1ecdi tu tr\u00ec l\u00e0m linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129 h\u01a1n l\u00e0&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1030,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[71],"tags":[],"table_tags":[],"class_list":["post-1029","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kinh-thanh-giao-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1029","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1029"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1029\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1031,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1029\/revisions\/1031"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1030"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1029"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1029"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1029"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=1029"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}