{"id":1220,"date":"2018-12-18T13:51:32","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T06:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/?p=1220"},"modified":"2018-12-18T13:51:32","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T06:51:32","slug":"xay-dung-hanh-phuc-gia-dinh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/2018\/12\/18\/xay-dung-hanh-phuc-gia-dinh\/","title":{"rendered":"X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"

Khi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u00e3y c\u1ea7m tay nhau<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n xa nhau ho\u1eb7c k\u00e9o hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u00e3y \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i, v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m, n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi d\u00f9, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ea3 quan nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

Gary Lundberg l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n Joy Lundberg l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, nh\u00e0 th\u01a1. C\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 Provo, Ti\u1ec3u Bang Utah, M\u1ef9. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u0103m con v\u00e0 m\u01b0\u1eddi ba ch\u00e1u n\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i. C\u1ea3 hai th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c nhi\u1ec1u bu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean trang FamilyShare, h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1m v\u00e0o nhau v\u1edbi s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh phi th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1ebd qua, m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7m tay nhau m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi \u0111i h\u01b0\u1edfng tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i mua m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 b\u1eb1ng g\u1ed7 r\u1ea5t ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang trong nh\u00e0 nh\u1eafc ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u01a1n b\u00e3o kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00f4i khi x\u1ea3y ra trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ea9y h\u1ecd xa nhau. N\u1ebfu x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cam k\u1ebft chung th\u1ee7y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec, v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 bi k\u1ecbch c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 l\u1eafm \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n xa nhau. Bi k\u1ecbch duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

G\u1ee3i \u00fd gi\u00fap v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n: \u0110\u00f4i khi, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc hay th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o n\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c d\u1eabn ta \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1. Khi r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n v\u00f2ng tay y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00f4m cho\u00e0ng l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. Khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng xoa d\u1ecbu n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nh\u1ee5t ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n

– Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m: C\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ”b\u1ecb” \u00f4m, c\u1ee9 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh ”\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c” \u00f4m. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o c\u00e1ch ly gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0n g\u1eafn c\u00f5i l\u00f2ng tan v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

– H\u00e3y nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhau: C\u00f3 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 k\u1ec3: Ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, \u00f4ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c, b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. \u00d4ng ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng m\u00e9p gi\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u1ee3 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u \u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ed5n kh\u00f4ng!!! \u00d4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f3c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u1ee3 ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u00f4ng, cho\u00e0ng tay \u00f4m \u00f4ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u00f4ng v\u00e0o l\u00fac \u1ea5y. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng.” Nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng… s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh cho h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

T\u1eeb b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00e9m \u0111i m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y n\u1eafm tay nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i qua c\u00e1c c\u01a1n b\u00e3o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00e0, khi tr\u1eddi quang, m\u00e2y t\u1ea1nh, s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd. T\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed3ng th\u1eafm v\u00e0 cao \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea3y su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00eam, nh\u01b0ng ni\u1ec1m vui s\u1ebd tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

(Phan D\u01b0\u01a1ng S\u01a1n s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m.)<\/p>\n

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Khi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng h\u00e3y c\u1ea7m tay nhau Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n xa nhau ho\u1eb7c k\u00e9o hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1221,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"amp_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[71],"tags":[],"table_tags":[],"class_list":["post-1220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kinh-thanh-giao-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1220","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1220"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1220\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1222,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1220\/revisions\/1222"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1220"},{"taxonomy":"table_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/table_tags?post=1220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}