{"id":1537,"date":"2019-02-21T11:23:58","date_gmt":"2019-02-21T04:23:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/?p=1537"},"modified":"2019-02-21T11:23:58","modified_gmt":"2019-02-21T04:23:58","slug":"7-tieu-chuan-de-ket-hon-voi-nguoi-khac-ton-giao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/giaoxunamdien.org\/index.php\/2019\/02\/21\/7-tieu-chuan-de-ket-hon-voi-nguoi-khac-ton-giao\/","title":{"rendered":"7 TI\u00caU CHU\u1ea8N \u0110\u1ec2 K\u1ebeT H\u00d4N V\u1edaI NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C T\u00d4N GI\u00c1O"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"H\u00c3\u00acnh<\/p>\n

H\u1ecfi: \u201cTh\u01b0a \u0110\u01b0\u0301c cha, gi\u01a1\u0301i tre\u0309 chu\u0301ng con hi\u00ea\u0323n nay ph\u1ea3i \u0111i la\u0300m \u0103n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111o\u0301, v\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang con th\u01b0\u01a1\u0300ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f4\u0300ng y\u0301 cho k\u00ea\u0301t h\u00f4n v\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c t\u00f4n gia\u0301o, nh\u00e2\u0301t la\u0300 con ga\u0301i \u0111a\u0323o l\u00e2\u0301y ch\u00f4\u0300ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng. Chu\u0301ng con kh\u00f4ng mu\u00f4\u0301n la\u0300m bu\u1ed3n lo\u0300ng b\u00f4\u0301 me\u0323, cu\u0303ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u00f4\u0301n m\u00e2\u0301t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i y\u00eau. Chu\u0301ng con bi\u0323 gi\u0103\u0300ng co r\u00e2\u0301t ma\u0303nh li\u00ea\u0323t tr\u01b0\u01a1\u0301c nh\u01b0\u0303ng l\u01b0\u0323a cho\u0323n nh\u01b0 th\u00ea\u0301 na\u0300y. Ki\u0301nh xin \u0111\u01b0\u0301c cha cho chu\u0301ng con nh\u01b0\u0303ng l\u01a1\u0300i khuy\u00ean b\u00f4\u0309 i\u0301ch nh\u00e2\u0301t.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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Gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9c cha Anphong Nguy\u1ec5n H\u1eefu Long<\/span><\/p>\n

\"H\u00c3\u00acnh<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cn\u00f3ng b\u1ecfng\u201d<\/em>, \u201cnh\u1ee9c nh\u1ed1i\u201d<\/em> c\u1ee7a bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c gi\u00e1m m\u1ee5c, linh m\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013 T\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o t\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc ta th\u1ea5p, ch\u1ec9 6-7% d\u00e2n s\u1ed1, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cphi\u00eau l\u01b0u\u201d<\/em>, th\u00ec h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00e0ng \u201cphi\u00eau l\u01b0u\u201d<\/em> h\u01a1n. Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Ph\u00e1p Saint-Exup\u00e9ry c\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng: \u201cY\u00eau nhau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nhau, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng\u201d<\/em>. Khi n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a chung: chung nh\u00e0, chung c\u1eeda, chung con c\u00e1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 chung, chung chia vui bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd h\u1ee3p trong m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c h\u1ec7 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i chung m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi hai h\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u00f3 khi xung kh\u1eafc nhau n\u1eefa. T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 vun \u0111\u1eafp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u00ec c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1o, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh cho c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh ngang tr\u00e1i n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00f2n phi\u00eau l\u01b0u \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c lu\u00e2n l\u00fd nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111\u1ea1o, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chung th\u1ee7y, m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u1eeba thai, ph\u00e1 thai, ly d\u1ecb\u2026 \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ly d\u1ecb, b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5 b\u1ea1c ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh, b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1 thai, ng\u1eeba thai kh\u00f4ng theo nh\u01b0 Gi\u00e1o H\u1ed9i C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2013 Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201cv\u01a1 \u0111\u0169a c\u1ea3 n\u1eafm\u201d<\/em> \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i m\u1ecdi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea1o; c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 \u201clao \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d<\/em> v\u00e0o h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea1o. Ph\u1ea3i t\u00f9y t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u1eady, cha xin \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb xem x\u00e9t r\u1ed3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1eafn, \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n, bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef l\u1eddi, bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, c\u00f3 tin v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0110\u1ea5ng T\u1ed1i Cao, bi\u1ebft k\u00ednh s\u1ee3 Ng\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng (\u00edt l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n).<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y, m\u1ed9t v\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ng\u1eeba thai, ph\u00e1 thai. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t quan h\u1ec7, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2u.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"K\u00e1\u00ba\u00bft<\/p>\n

4. B\u1ea1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u gia \u0111\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

5. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ea1o v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, l\u1eafng nghe quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u1ecd tin v\u00e0o Ch\u00faa, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai \u201cc\u00f9ng nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng\u201d.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

6. B\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trao \u0111\u1ed5i, xin \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, cha x\u1ee9 n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n xem x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Sau c\u00f9ng, xin b\u1ea1n t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng: Th\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ni\u1ec1m tin, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e2u.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngu\u1ed3n: S\u01b0u t\u1ea7m\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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